Some lessons in personal development

 

Peter Seaman

Chandos Lodge

Eye

Suffolk

IP23 7AQ

 

Tel 01379-679043

 

email:                  email: brathay at Stable-Software dot co dot uk

home page:         http://PeterSeaman.go.to

Introduction

Some years ago IBM sent me on a one-week course entitled “Development through Action” at Brathay Hall, near Ambleside in the Lake District.  I benefited immensely from this course.  It was not directly concerned with work, but with personal relationships and life in general. On return from Brathay I feel greatly refreshed - my family have noticed this and they tell me the change is for the better.  Whether or not the effect will last remains to be seen!  However, if I had paid for the course out of my own pocket I would have considered it money well spent.

There were 32 IBMers on the course: we were divided into four groups of 8.  Each group was guided by a Brathay “tutor” and an IBM assistant.  No information on the participants is fed back to IBM from either of these people.  Each of us decided for ourselves what we learned from the course and what we wanted to apply in our everyday lives.

Each team carried out an enormous variety of projects.  Many of these were done when members of the team were confused, tired, annoyed, upset or uncomfortable.  Usually we felt under some sort of time pressure, and this also created a condition to stimulate learning.

As most of the activities were out of doors, the fact that I did the course in late November was of some relevance.  I would strongly urge anyone else considering the course to also go in the wintertime because the darkness and discomforts tended to accentuate the things one learned.

Much of the time I was doing something I had never done before.  Even after a short project we always had a review and discussion. I found it remarkable how much I could learn from a discussion following a project that might last little more than an hour.

The general scheme was to go through a new experience, discuss and review what happened, then try to apply the lessons to other experiences, i.e. do something, reflect, transfer, apply and be aware that all this is going on.

We were encouraged to be open and frank and to listen to what other people said even when they were wrong.  Often a given event was seen in a different way by different people.

There was no pressure or coercion; each person took part and contributed or opted out as he or she wished.

Of a great many projects, I have picked three that were of some significance to me.  One was short, one medium and one long.  In each case I give my personal view of what happened and also try to list some lessons I learned.  At the end of this report I hope to add the perception of other people who were present if and when I receive them.

The narrative is deliberately in the first person as this is the way our Brathay tutor ex-actor Tony Rumgay encouraged us to review each experience.  I was extremely impressed by the approach taken by Tony Rumgay and wrote to him afterwards a letter of thanks.   I found all the review sessions exceedingly interesting and he made me think about things in a way I had never thought about things before.

The Mountain Day

Sunday

We collected our “rations” for dinner, breakfast and lunch and packed our rucksacks with all necessary equipment as listed by Tony.  My rucksack was heavy and overflowing, as were most others.

We left Brathay in a minibus in the dark at about 7pm, uncertain as to where we would be going and how far we would be walking that night, though both Tony and Colin were with us.  The driver dropped us near a pub and we then made for the hut where we were to spend the night.  The exact location and distance of the hut were unknown as Tony led the way up the road.  As it turned out the distance was not great, and when we arrived we were amazed to discover that the “hut” was in fact a house. There was even electricity and bottled gas laid on.  There were no carpets or anything like that and very rough beds but nevertheless, compared with our expectations this place was a palace.

Planning the walk

We cooked and ate a meal from the food we had brought, and washed up. Tony then instructed us in basic map reading skills, use of a compass and gave advice on estimating time, direction and distance - 4 km per hour plus one hour for each 1000 feet rise, plus 10% for each 1000 feet decline.  Apart from this basic information from Tony the organisation of the walk was almost entirely in our hands, whether we went one mile or twenty miles, whether we climbed a mountain or stayed level. We discovered later that one of the other teams did not like the conditions the following day and decided to pass the time in a pub!

After dinner we discussed and planned our forthcoming walk. I took little part in this discussion, but a route was soon proposed which involved following a track to the summit of Wetherlam, 2502 feet.  (There are 47 higher peaks in the Lake District, the highest being Scafell Pikes, 3204 feet)

Although Lesley was Manager of the Day Rosemary wanted a leader to be appointed and became concerned that no-one else seemed to consider this necessary.  She told us she had been on a hill walking course, modestly indicated she had some basic knowledge that perhaps the rest of us did not, and volunteered herself as leader.  At that time I could see little need for a leader as the track was clearly marked on the map and only a few turnings were involved.  I wondered why Rosemary was so keen to take over and felt that she was being over-cautious.  Altough I was willing to go along with it, at the time I had a slight preference for a more demanding expedition.

We discussed the pace at which we would go.  Bran (the oldest) said he could go on all day at a good steady pace and did not want to doodle about.  Neither did Rich, neither did I so on this point we seemed to be in agreement.

The route was checked with Tony for prudence - he confirmed it was OK except we might have to take a short cut at one point because of the need to cross a stream.  Eventually we agreed on a shorter route and allowed an hour for unplanned contingency.  The intent was to arrive at Conisiton 21:35 around 3pm.  The objective did not seem to me too difficult, but how mistaken I was later proved to be.

Sunday Evening - in the pub

After dinner we all walked down to the pub and had a fairly jovial time. I talked to Andy about IMS CICS and other IBM matters.  Arriving back at the hut around 11 pm, I was the first to go to bed.

Monday

As planned we had breakfast and set off at 9 am. We agreed to take it in turns to navigate, two at a time for one- hour periods.  After about 10 minutes of walking at a slowish pace Brian [puffing] said we ought to slow down as we would reach our destination far too quickly at that rate! There were a number of stops for people to re-fit their boots etc and a slight impatience began to result. We reached a couple of bends and Y-junctions shown on the map but at every turn Rosemary (the leader and initial navigator) seemed slow at making up her mind where we were.  This was no doubt because she wanted to be absolutely sure.  I and others began to get a little impatient in this early stage of the walk as the way ahead seemed fairly obvious.

The track gradually became less clear and then suddenly we were at a disused mine by a stream.  There was now some concern: this was not where we should have been and it was soon apparent we had missed a turning somewhere.

Tony remained with us and took no part in helping to navigate, though he knew exactly where we had gone wrong.  We argued for about half an hour as to what to do next but there was no consensus at all. Rosemary continued her tendency to procrastinate and we were getting nowhere fast in fact we were going nowhere at all and arguing in circles.  It was raining and had become misty; I was eager to re-trace our steps to find the missing turn and eventually the team set off to do this.  I had a brief chat with Tony who told me where the track was that we had missed - it was by a wall.  The rest of the team discovered this independently so at least problem number one was now solved.

But what now?  The map manifestly showed a path leading up the hillside but none was visible however hard we searched.  At last we took a bearing of the track on the map and eventually all agreed we needed to head in the direction 220 degrees magnetic up the hill.  It was now drizzling continuously and morale was sagging.  We were not exactly lost but the route was not at all obvious.  As we strained up the mountain circumstances did not improve, and we had frequent stops trying to decide the way and to wait for Brian, who as unable to keep up with the rest of us.  Navigators at this time were Rich and Geoff, but Geoff had given up totally and Rich was getting increasingly frustrated and angry at the rest of the team taking no notice of him.  I was quite willing to follow Rich, and (unlike several others) did not want to form an independent opinion as to whether he was right or wrong.

Another long stop, with the team now split into several small groups and no unanimity as to the position of the path or what to head for.  Long altercations and no progress.  Rosemary was still leader but unwilling to accept without much long-winded discussion the inclinations of the navigator.  It was getting near my own turn to navigate, but the previously agreed strategy of navigators taking turns was beginning to fall down.

I was getting really fed up and made a plan in my mind to get things going.  I decided that the only way things would work would be to have a single navigator that we all agreed to follow.  As it was now the turn of Andy and myself to navigate I made my proposal to him.  This was to announce that we would navigate only on condition that they would follow us, even if they thought us wrong.  I made it quite clear to Andy that I would not attempt to navigate if this mode was not accepted.  I checked with the manager of the day (Lesley) if this proposition was worth putting up and she agreed. Andy agreed also, but I did not speak to Rosemary even though she was leader of the walk.

I stood on a rack and shouted to everyone around to come to a meeting and announced my proposal.  Andy and I would do our best to decide where to go and they had to follow.  We were not prepared to argue any more about it.  They had to agree to follow us even if they considered we were going wrong.  As our period of navigation was an hour, the worst that could happen would be that we would be an hour off course in the wrong direction.  I was quite determined not to attempt navigation except on this basis and it was accepted peacefully without too much ado, even by Rosemary.

At my suggestion Andy and I then walked away from the rest of the group with our maps, and while out of earshot made our decision and set off.  The rest followed.  Morale improved significantly and I felt a sense of achievement.

A little later Rosemary told me that Andy and I were creating confidence in ourselves as we were looking around and using our compasses. But Rosemary insisted on being kept in the picture at every move; to my slight disappointment Andy was more willing to go along with her than I was.  (In retrospect I see Andy as being reasonable: after all Rosemary was still leader of the walk).  I simply wanted to do our job without interference but I was determined not to fall out with Andy and did not make a fuss.  Although at the time I found Rosemary’s attitude annoying I did not communicate this feeling to her.

The rain and the fog got worse and picking the way became even more difficult.  I was not confident and began to be persuaded by confident sounding noises from people like Brian.  Tony was asked for advice.  This was to carry on until the fog cleared enough in order that we could take a bearing of the disused mine that we knew and could see on the map.  But the fog did not clear enough for this.

We crawled under a large sheet for lunch and this was quite jolly, though one had to be careful to avoid the seep droppings.  The rain and the fog continued and navigation rights passed to Sarah and Brian.  We found the occasional way marker but the path continued to be very difficult.  We laboured on.

Tony noted that the route up the mountain we were about to take involved slippery rocks and led us away in order to reduce the risk of an accident.  This, he said later, was purely a selfish decision - he simply did not want to be bothered with having to deal with a broken ankle or whatever.  The Tony detour was only a few minutes.  After that we were on our own again and climbed and climbed and climbed until we reached what seemed the summit.  It became very windy and cold and the rain and fog continued.  Every time you squeezed a gloved hand masses of water poured out.  Some people were getting trouble with blisters.  Colin kindly took enough photographs for us to have one each.

The Summit

At the top of the mountain we were about an hour behind schedule but less than half way to our destination. The path down was again not clear and no surrounding peaks were visible through the fog.  Rosemary used a technique she knew for navigating in bad visibility.  This was to send Sarah ahead in the required direction until almost out of sight.  We then walked to Sarah and repeated the process.  After two or three attempts we got fed up with this tedious approach and gave it up.

The Descent

We went on and on, a bit lost and several people having difficulty descending the steep wet slippery slope.  Rosemary said it as a good idea to lean forward, and to tread sideways.  A few times we stopped for long discussion/argument about where we were but people were feeling more and more tired and resigned and less and less inclined to argue. I for one soon lost our supposed place on the map and stopped attempting to use it.

I was relieved my period of navigation was now over!

Arrival at Coniston

After what seemed a very long time and a fair amount of uncertainty and assistance from Tony we arrived at Coniston about 4pm and telephoned Brathay for the mini-bus to collect us.  Someone treated us to mars bars and we stood there eating them in the pouring rain.  |For a brief period I sheltered in the telephone box and made a quick call to my wife - the opportunities for any sort of these none-Brathay activities during the week were rather limited.

See flip charts for people’s reactions to this experience.

What I learned

1.      Authoritarian leadership can improve morale considerably.  Several people’s charts shown at the review revealed a significant uplift when it was decided to accept the firm approach I would take.

2.      If people are taking actions with which I am not comfortable I should say it.  It is an insult to a person to avoid telling them my feelings.  If I think I am sparing someone’s feelings by not telling the person what I really think I am fooling myself; it is my own feelings of unease I am more concerned about.

3.      Some unnecessary suspicions could have been avoided if I had told Rosemary how here words and actions were coming over to me.  Other people might have done this also.  During the post-project review Tony indicated that he suspected there were sentiments present in the group that may or may not remain buried.  I think what we really thought of Rosemary was not brought out properly: in its place Colin (supported by Brian) said we had achieved what we had set out to do and that Rosemary should be pleased and not disappointed.  That evening and the following morning Rosemary was very upset.

4.      What seems an obvious route on a map may be extremely difficult to pick out when you are there on the ground, especially if the weather is not good or if one is tired or fed up.  [You see what you want to see]

5.      I learnt how to take a compass bearing from a map.  (Tony showed us all this in the hut but later in the week I discovered that several people had not understood and could still not do it)

6.      I learned a tiny bit about recognising where you are by studying the hills and valleys and the contours on a map

7.      I found I had sufficient stamina for activities such as this, more than some people present.  I did not however have more stamina than the women.  This came as a surprise to some.

 

I would love to do a similar walk again and hope that my wife will buy me a walking compass for Xmas.

Using Brathay Whalers

Brathay whalers are large heavy rowing boats seating 5-10 people.  There are 4 oars (two long and two short) each of which can be operated by one or two persons.  There is a rudder at the stern operated by the only person who faces forwards.  They are heavy boats and quite long – with 8 rowers sitting single file communication from one end of the boat to the other can only be achieved by shouting over the heads of the  intervening crew.

 

Some teams were introduced to the Brathay Whalers in the dark on the evening of the day we arrived on the course, but we did not experience the boat until the Wednesday morning.  I had volunteered to be leader as far as usage of the boat was concerned, and did not offer to lead other projects.

 

On Wednesday about 10:30 am Tony showed me the boat and how to organise things before the others arrived.  This involved a number of tasks, such as

 

 

There was a lot of information to absorb in a short time and Tony said he would not be coming with us.

Then I was on my own to take out the team for a row with a requirement to return within 20 minutes, as the boat was then required by the Halifax Textiles Training Council.   The 20 minutes included the time necessary for me alone to give all necessary explanations and to get the team organised in what for most of us (including myself) was a totally unfamiliar activity.  I find it very difficult to work things out in a group environment especially when under severe time pressure as we were now.

 

I was somewhat nervous and though I had played around in dinghies for some years I had not rowed and everybody was expecting me to be the expert.

 

Deciding where to sit was not obvious and a bit of a problem.  I did not instruct clearly and let things drift.  Eventually we were in place.  I cannot remember my own position or whether I initially had a blade but eventually we settled down a bit and I as shouting in! in! in! to try to get the team in unison.  I soon began to realise there were all sorts of things I should have though about in advance and sorted out.  People were sitting on one side of the boat operating blades in the water on the opposite side.  I was facing backwards trying to tell the person facing me how to steer.  Port and Starboard became hopelessly confused in my mind and I had to think very carefully how to instruct people to turn.  I took care and don’t think I got it wrong, though some instructions were probably less clear than they could have been.

 

Then Brian (who had previously indicated that he loved rowing and had considerable experience of it) began to take over.  He became impatient at how I/we were operating and he told everyone to take SHORTER strokes, which went against what I was trying to do.  This annoyed me intensely so I opted out - OK, your turn Brian I said, you be skipper and lead the boat.  We changed places.  To turn round, Brian got things wrong and had the wrong side of the boar rowing furiously against the direction of the rudder.  Then we decided to go up to a buoy and stop with the buoy by the bows.  This we failed to do, Brian had not taken sufficient account of the momentum of the boat and we short right past it far too fast.

 

The 20 minutes was soon used up!

This is what I learnt

 

1.      I should have admitted that I had just as much to learn from the experience as everyone else, and that the boat should follow the skipper even when they think he is wrong.

2.      I should have stamped on Brian immediately he started to take over and insisted that I was the skipper until such time as it was handed over to someone else.  Even if Brian was the expert I needed to make my own mistakes so that we could ll learn from them.

3.      Before going out I should have made sure everyone understood port and starboard and who rowed on a starboard turn and who rowed on a port turn.  The method by which the steering instructions were to be communicated should have been laid down in clear terms.

4.      Before going out I should have sorted out the seating arrangements and decided whether I was going to row, steer, shout instructions or all three,  I should have announced some change-over arrangements.  Or better, I could have delegated seating arrangements.

Climax Project - Wednesday and Thursday

The final project, known as the “climax” project was unusual in several respects.

First, it was very long and split into three stages.  The first stage started at 3 am on Wednesday afternoon, and the third stage finished around 11 am on Thursday morning - a total of 20 hours, including all night.

Second, it involved many different skills both practical and mental.  It was a splendid opportunity to put into practice what we had learnt the rest of the week.

Third, the whole project was done without the tutor’s help or even his presence!  We were entirely on our own and had no expert with us if we got lost or found ourselves in a dangerous situation. This was November in the Lake District and the weather was wet and cold.

This time Geoff was Manager of the Day and the de-facto Project leader of Stage 1.  The brief was obtained by Geoff at the manager-of-the-day meeting when no-one else from our group was present, and he returned with it to the library at about 2:30 pm.  With only one copy available and some fairly complicated instructions I found it very difficult to obtain undisturbed time to understand the requirements.  I for one was keen to follow the rules and to beat the other 3 teams who were separately doing the same exercise.

The first activity was to collect the “Stage 1 brief”.  Two of the three parts were available by boat trips, but our team only had about 20 minutes experience of boat work, and I was doubtful that our navigation was adequate for the task.  However, Sarah was confident she could navigate successfully by following the shore line, and I reluctantly conceded, even though it seemed likely that - at least for the final part of the time - we would be on lake Windermere in the dark, not to mention the wind and the rain.

The goal was to complete stage 1 by 7pm, but because of the group confusion and extended discussions, I formed the impression that we only had to obtain the three parts of the Stage 1 brief by 7pm, as opposed to the problem of solving the Stage 1 clues specified in the brief.  (The full set of clues turned out to be extensive).

An important rule was: “The only transport available to you is by foot, whaler or public transport”; this raised interesting optimisation problems, but as usual there seemed insufficient time for the group to discuss all the possibilities and reach much agreement.

There was a tremendous rush in the locker area as we had not already prepared our rucksacks as had some of the other teams.  I stuffed as many cans of food, cooking utensils and clothing into my bag as it would possibly hold.  It was rather heavy and difficult to fill in a neat or logical manner.  Finally, we set off in the boat at about 4pm, rucksacks with us, with an estimated time of 1.5 hours before return.  The crew were:

 

 

Geoff and Rosemary went on foot searching for clue number 1.  Our task was to collect clue number 3 from the east side of lake Windermere and clue number 2 from the west side.  Then we were to return to base with these 2 clues, meet up with Geoff and Rosemary then discover what stage 1 really involved.

We rowed off, me shouting “pull! pull! pull!” or “in! in! in!” as loud as I could so that all members of the crew could hear. Sarah was at the stern of the boar telling us where to go.  It went reasonably well, with Sarah appearing to know where she was without too much difficulty.  Later Andy swapped with Lesley so that he could warm up and Lesley could rest.

Optimism and Skepticism

We reached Clue 3 on the east side an reasonable time the set off to the west side for Clue 2. Sarah was a splendid navigator and we found what appeared to be the correct bay with little difficulty. The clue referred to a “burnt tree by a waterman’s garage” which we interpreted as an ash tree by a boathouse.  Although it was now almost dark we soon spotted the boathouse, and sure enough close by it there was a tree. But was it an ash tree?  I myself did not know, but Sarah assured everybody that it was and this was confirmed by our gardener Brian.  Yes it must be an ash tree because we were looking for such a tree by a boathouse, and here was a tree by a boathouse.

Sarah was optimistic and confident but I was more doubtful.  I beached the boat and a couple of the crew hopped ashore to collect the plastic container on the West side if the “ash” tree.  But we searched and searched and could not find it.  A signpost nearby confirmed we were in the correct bay but, and though most of us had a very thorough hunt everywhere within 300 meters, the box was nowhere to be found.  Eventually, after about 45 minutes we noticed another boathouse just round the other side of the bay so we returned to the whaler and set off for it.  It was now dark and we ran aground into some thick weed, but after a struggle we arrived at the second boathouse.  Sarah hopped ashore and within less than 30 seconds had found the clue.

We had made no arrangement to telephone base with information in the clue so we set off for return to Brathay.  This time Sarah’s navigation was not perfect as we went straight past the Brathay inlet and had to turn round and re-trace our steps, losing perhaps a further 15 minutes.  Out mission was accomplished though somewhat late; morale at this point was not too bad.

Someone (I think it was Bill) from the other group (called “Windermere”) was awaiting us at the Brathay boathouse.  I did not understand what Bill was doing there, but he, Sarah and I went off to the village to meet our leader Geoff to decide what to do next.  Lesley, Brian, Andy and Rich stayed with the boat.

Collusion and Confusion

There was considerable activity by the telephone box in the village, most of which centered around Steve (Windermere team), Bob (the magician) and our leader Geoff.  Geoff told us that the stage 1 task was extremely complicated and that it was hopeless for a single team to achieve it alone. He, as leader of our team (“Coniston”), had therefore decided (whilst most of his team were on the water) to collude with Windermere and form a joint effort with the two teams.  As I desperately wanted our team to win I was not therefore at all happy with this but it was now too late to argue and I felt little choice but to go along with the joint Coniston-Windermere effort.  People were buzzing around the telephone box like flies, maps laid on the ground being intently studied with the aid of torches.    It was very fortunate indeed that there was no rain at this time.  The stage 1 brief was now in our possession but, with only one copy in the hands of the leader, it was impractical for me to find out what was involved or to form an independent judgement as to whether it was soluble by a single team or not.

It turned out that Steve had been appointed overall leader of the Coniston-Windermere effort.  He was humming and harring and talking about sending off taxis here and there - they had decided taxis were public transport and therefore allowed by the rules.  I was not sure about this but it was too late now to object.  Limited time was available and quick decisions were needed.  There were now too many people involved to my liking, I had little say in the planning and felt it was getting shambolic. I expressed willingness to go wherever instructed by my crew, but it was some time before Steve made up his mind.  This was to send the boat to three places quite a long way away (about twice as far as we had done so far).  I was willing to go, and we decided to take another man with us from Windermere.

Second Whaler Journey

On arrival at the boat the rucksacks had been removed and carted off to a private car.  We set off a second time for the East side of lake Windermere.  The plan was to visit two places on the east side and two on the west, one of which was about 6 km south and nowhere near a telephone box. We arrived at the first place, Brockhole National Park, a bit later than anticipated as people were now beginning to get tired and perhaps bored.  Nevertheless, morale was still not too bad and Sarah had navigated excellently.

We counted the bollards and “No Mooring” signs as required by the clue but there appeared to be no public landing stage.  This was needed because we had planned to send off a couple of joggers to a hotel a mile North to telephone base with the information.  So, with very long journey south still ahead of us, we decided to make it even longer and row back north to the hotel.  Things were no longer looking good with time ticking away and a 10 pm deadline.  In fact, the task was beginning to look impossible.

At the hotel, two people went ashore and soon reported EUREKA!  Stage 1 was solved!! and we could now return to meet up at a pub in Ambleside.  We did not now need go on that long journey South.  This was just as well, because I was doubtful that we could have made it.  Time now was about 9pm.

(I heard later - but have not verified - that the clues we were sent to recover from those remote points were overheard by our team when a member of another team reported the clue on a nearby telephone!)

A jolly time was had in the pub with most members of Coniston and Windermere present. There were one or two unsettling moments though.  Windermere had used private cars to transport gear around and to travel to the pub.  Private cars were disallowed by the rules and I was very unhappy about this and said I wanted no Coniston team members or gear to use cars.  It seemed Coniston were probably OK but by now I had had 2 or maybe 3 pints of beer and my judgement was becoming even more impaired than usual.

Stage 2 - camping Out

The stage 2 brief was to acquire suitable equipment and to spend the night at a campsite at a place called Pull Wyke, about 1 km South of Brathay and approachable by boat.  In the pub many members of the Coniston team were not present; I did not understand completely where they were or what was going on but was told they would be arriving at the pub “shortly”.  How long should we wait for them I wondered, what if they do not turn up?  Long after closing time we were turned out of the pub and started the longish trek to the jetty without yet having met the rest of the team.  We met them in a private car on the way and stopped for yet another long discussion as to what to do.

Third Boat journey

I guess we arrived at the boat around 11:20 pm.  [We did not know this at the time but the tutors at Brathay were becoming somewhat concerned that no-one had turned up with a points list to collect camping equipment].  The task was to cross Lake Windermere again to the West side to find the campsite at which we were to stay the night. I was still skipper, Sarah navigator and the Windermere boat agreed to follow us.  It was becoming foggy and visibility was not good; it was not clear to me that the other side of the lake was visible and I decided it was necessary to use a compass.

Trouble begins to brew...

It was clearly agreed in our boat that I was skipper and Sarah was navigator, and that Windermere would follow.  (Later I was to learn that my own role was not as clearly understood as I thought)

I felt responsible for safety and as we now had extra crew it was not clear there would be enough life jackets.  I insisted that everyone must wear a lifejacket or I would not be skipper.  Somehow, life jackets were found for everyone.  Sarah decided to take position at the bows in order to navigate more easily.  I remained with an oar at the stern next to Lesley who was steering.  Thus skipper and navigator were at opposite ends of the boat and in retrospect I think this is one reason why the later conflist between us took place.  Anyway, we left the jetty and had to row slowly in order that Windermere could keep up with us.

I formed the impression and made the assumption that Sarah was influenced somewhat by alcohol and decided to check the course extremely carefully by compass.  I did not communicate these decisions to the rest of the boat.  Brian started to give instructions which I stamped on immediately (having learned a lesson in a previous exercise) - “who is in charge of this boat?” I roared.  This abrupt comment silenced Brian completely and I had no further trouble from that quarter.

Shortly after leaving shore I shouted to Sarah at the other end of the boat (across the 6 intervening rowers) asking her if she could see the shore on the far side of the lake.  If the shore were visible I intended to allow Sarah to navigate as she had done so successfully earlier in the day.  But the message that came back to me (making allowance for Sarah’s natural optimism) was that she could not see the far side of the Lake.  It was late, cold and foggy.

Sarah said she would go South down the East side of the lake until we met a known lit hotel and then turn through 90 degrees and cross the lake in a dead Westerly direction.  This was fine with me but there was no compass fixed in the boat and I was not confident anyone (especially Sarah) could navigate with just a hand held compass.  Sarah seemed to me rather casual in her use of her compass and I decided to make absolutely sure at least that I knew where West was.

I was aware that I had had some drink so I deliberately took things slowly and carefully. I decided to change Lesley with Rosemary, as the latter was better at compass usage.  But it soon became clear that Rosemary too needed much help with setting up the compass along the line of the boat.  I explained very carefully to Rosemary what to do but she seemed to have little confidence in me.

I stopped the boat a second time in order to be absolutely sure we had the compass placed correctly.  This took several minutes and was perhaps another factor in people losing confidence in me.  We started off again and I was both rowing and watching the compass, with the intent of traveling due West which was no firmly established in my mind.

I am not certain whether or not we traveled far enough down the East side of the lake or whether the hotel at which we were to turn right actually came into view, but there seemed to be an overwhelming desire on Sarah’s part to take a short cut and turn right too early.  I reluctantly accepted this and simply assumed that WEST was nevertheless the direction in which to head.  To my surprise, Sarah started directing the boat (steered by Rosemary) in a direction some 25 degrees off course i.e. SOUTH of West.  I did my best to point out this error but it was becoming impossible for Rosemary to serve two masters.  The rest of the crew wanted to follow Sarah and I lost control, though I did not give up pointing out that were going in the wrong direction.  Rich said that Sarah was navigator and that I should shut up.  Sarah insisted that she WAS going dues West, I insisted that we were not!.  Everyone was undoubtedly on Sarah’s side, both at this point and indeed for the rest of the night.

Around midnight...

After some 20 minutes we at last could see the shore on the West side of the lake and Sarah headed for the jetty in the bay named in out instructions.   It then slowly began to dawn on the crew that we were not where everyone hoped we were and I myself was absolutely certain we were too far South, since we had been traveling south of west not west. I then felt much better and was sure that now Sarah had been proved wrong they would feel more inclined to listen to me.  But this assumption was rapidly proved false, a typical conversation at this time being

 

Someone in Windermere boat (slowly following us wherever we went):

Where are we Coniston?

Sarah: We are at Pull Wyke, I am just finding the jetty.

Me: How do you know we are at Pull Wyke, where is the evidence?

Sarah: I am certain we are at Pull Wyke because we travelled across the lake due West

Me: (exasperated) We did not travel West, we travelled South of West.  I was carefully watching the compass and do not believe you were.

Sarah: I know we went west and we must be where I directed the boat to.

Me: How do you know?

Rest of crew: (cold, hungry and getting worried): Shut up, Peter.

I was becoming increasingly agitated and annoyed and was genuinely amazed that they would not listen to me.  Not only my team but also Windermere were all clearly on Sarah’s side.  It was 15 against one.

12:30 am

But there was a way out - clearly it would soon be accepted that we were not at Pull Wyke and that Sarah’s credibility and unjustified optimism would vanish.  I worked out a plan in my mind, and kept quite for a bit.

I was some time (perhaps 15 minutes) before it was generally accepted that we were now lost and at that point I announced my proposal.  This was based on getting to a known sport first, and then tracing the shore from there.  So I proposed going north to the boat house at Brathay Hall, then tracing the shore line south until we reached the campsite at Pull Wyke.  This plan was not liked and rejected!  I was really astonished that such an obvious proposal was not accepted.

So we drifted around.  Every now and again we went near the shore and Sarah saw the jetty she wanted to see but she was proved wrong time and time again.  I kept pressing for us to follow the shoreline in a northerly direction especially the extra distance involved in going in to all the bays but no-one would listen.  That fact that Sarah was proved wrong many times did not seem to affect anyone’s confidence in her except mine.  Even if I was a lunatic they should have taken the action which to me was obvious; I became more and more aggravated and frustrated that I could not control the boat.

1:30 am

Windermere were drifting around in a fairly undisciplined manner and every now and then we had to wait for them.  Once we ran aground on a jetty and Windermere had to wait for us; then we lost contact with Windermere and passed close to a small island.  We did not follow the shoreline into all the bays, but just drifted around, sometimes rowing sometimes not, sometimes going to the shore, sometimes taking short cuts.  At this point Windermere were out of sight to the South of us and their torches were failing. We were still south of Brathay and clearly at one of two possible points as there were only two islands shown on the m,ap in the vicinity.  However, no-one seemed to want to use the island as a known point to navigate from; it seemed to me that all rationality had left this boat.  The rest of the crew insisted that we row south to collect Windermere (as usual, this was against my wishes, I wanted to shout to Windermere to get them to come north to us.  In fact I would have been happy to forget Windermere entirely)

Morale at this point was extremely low.  People were cold, their judgement impaired and they were all annoyed at having this agitator (me) on board. We all desperately wanted to land ashore and get some food and sleep.  I now looked as if we would be in this wretched boat all night.  Sarah proposed putting two people ashore to find a road to get help.  This seemed crazy to me: there was no suitable landing place, no road or path visible and there was danger of stepping off the boat into deep mud and getting lost in bushes brambles and swamps.  I am glad the proposal was not accepted but it got uncomfortably close to being acted upon.

In situations like this I always have a strong urge to opt out and pass the responsibility on to someone else.  But there seemed no-one else in the boat with a modicum of competence in boat work and I decided I was trapped and it would have been very irresponsible of me to give up the post of skipper; even though my authority was being ignored.  If anything had happened (such as a person overboard) I would certainly have been the main person responsible.  So I hung on to my post, ineffective though I was.

On several occasions we were encouraged by flashing lights and tried to go towards them, sometimes the lights disappeared, sometimes we were impaired by Windermere, but always we got nowhere.  A voice from within the boat (probably from Rosemary) said “I think I am suffering from hypothermia”

2:15 am

Finally we reached the island again and now Windermere were close behind. We saw another flashing light and went towards it.  It was someone on the jetty by the boathouse at Brathay hall. Relief, relief all round! At 2:30 am we tied up the boat, met up with the rest of out two teams in the boathouse and discussed what to do now; the rules clearly requited us to sleep on the campsite at Pull Wyke.  I was so keyed up that, unusually, tiredness was not an issue for me.  I wanted to stick with the rules and go to the campsite by any means - boat or foot - but no one else wanted to do this.

Brian announced that he was absolutely certain that the whole thing was a big con, and that there was no campsite in existence.

I could not understand why they wanted to camp (“discreetly”) in the grounds of Brathay Hall as to my mind this would without doubt have disqualified us - if we were not disqualified anyway because of the use made of private cars and taxis.  I saw no point in doing anything other than either going to the proper campsite come what may, or simply retiring to bed in our bunks at Brathay.  I announced that I was going to my bunk and cleared off, fully expecting other people to take the easy way out and follow later.  Yet again to my amazement they did not do this.

I got into be by 3am but could not sleep and kept writing down the things I found incredible.  These were:

1.      Because Sarah had wanted to go west she was absolutely sure she had gone west.

2.      Because everyone wanted to be at the campsite when we first hit the shore there everyone was sure we were at the campsite! 

3.      Because no-one wanted the effort of rowing to Brathay (my proposal when it was clear that we were lost) everyone was sure they did not need to row to Brathay!

  1. That no-one understood the concept of skepticism - you think you are at X and want to be at X, but lets look for the evidence rather than assume we are there

5.      Because they wanted to use private cars they were sure they were allowed to use cars

6.      Most of all, that they would not take the obvious action of tracing the shoreline in a northerly direction, even if they thought me an idiot.

Footnote 1: The following day I was quite shattered by something Bill (Windermere skipper) told me.  He said he had simply not realised that the person in charge of the Coniston boat who was constantly demanding to trace the shoreline was in fact the Coniston skipper (i.e. me).  He said the message to follow the coastline came over loud and clear in his boat and if he had known it was coming from the Coniston skipper they would have followed my advice with no problem.  This made my day, but perhaps I am just believing what I want to believe, perhaps Bill only said that to make me feel better...

IN RETROSPECT - WHAT I LEARNT

That night, and most of the following day including the review meeting, I remained truly amazed at what had happened and felt that I had done all the right things and would do the same again in a similar situation.  (This was in contract to earlier exercises where the mistakes were fairly obvious at the time - when someone else was leader or afterwards - when I was leader).  I decided there is more to leadership than working out a logical course of action and insisting on it.  I was told that I had got people’s backs up and that I had no right to over-ride Sarah.  They also said that my intentions did not come over in a clear and consistent manner.

I think now I underestimated the strong desire of everyone to avoid unnecessary rowing and to take short cuts.  They did not want to row along two sides of a triangle rather than the hypotenuse, they did not want to travel unnecessary distances all round irrelevant bays, they did not want to go to a known place (Brathay) to be able to navigate as it was not on the direct course.  Therefore everyone felt it was not necessary to do these things.

I decided that tact and a persuasive personality were essential requirements and as I had neither of these skills there was nothing I could have done.

Sarah’s perception related during the review was that I was continually a major factor in her mind and that she could not sleep because of it.  I was less of a factor in other peoples’ minds, just a nuisance.  Sarah said that at one point she decided to trace the shoreline.  This annoyed me considerably, tracing the shoreline is what I wanted all the time.  At no point did a clear readiness to do this by Sarah and the rest of the crew come over to me.  To me they were just an obstinate illogical bunch of people who would not listen to common sense.

But things I did wrong are much clearer to me now.  I now think that tact and an ability to persuade in that situation was no more than simply ensuring that people did not misunderstand my intentions and the reasons behind them.  The following are some of my conclusions and what I now think I ought to have done:

1.      I should have limited my drinking to one pint.

2.      I should have made clear before leaving that I was the skipper, especially to people in the Windermere boat.  If there was dissension I should have refused to take on the job with its associated responsibility.

3.      I had become concerned that Sarah was influenced by drink, that it was dark and foggy and that I was therefore unwilling to continue to trust her judgement without question as we had done earlier in the day.  The situation was different now and required a different approach.  I should have said all this.

4.      I should have pointed out that if the far shore was not visible we would follow a compass course.

5.      Following a compass course necessitated careful laying of one of our walking compasses along the line of the boat and that this would take some time.  I should have made clear that I was not willing to trust Sarah following a compass held in her had.

6.      I should have said that I as skipper could overrule the navigator If I judged it necessary.

7.      We should have deliberately headed to a point South of Pull Wyke so that it would be obvious which way to turn when we reached the west shoreline.   Or alternatively, deliberately headed for a point north e,g, Brathay Hall) and then turn left.  This “heading off” technique had been explained to use by Tony but we had all forgotten it.

8.      I should have anticipated and explained that accurate navigation could not be guaranteed and should not be expected.

Having settled the ground rules before leaving, I should have stuck to them absolutely, by reminding people what had been agreed as and when necessary.

Alternatively, I also see another possible approach that may have worked.  This would have been to leave the navigation to Sarah absolutely and not bother with the compass myself at all.  This approach would have been totally in tune with the feelings of the rest of the crew and would have been consistent with our successful travels earlier in the day. We would probably have still gone wrong but it would have taken less time and hassle to sort it out.  I was the only person in the boat who was not willing to trust Sarah and could have considered this sufficient reason to leave all the navigation to her.  But on other hand I was the skipper responsible for people’s safety and an unknown and potentially hazardous situation...